Your mother-in-law causing you inconvenience? Practical tips for polite response

In fact, marriage not only involves the association of two people, but also involves the coexistence of two different families. Many people (husbands and wives) are not so fortunate to meet good fathers with whom they can establish a stable and calm relationship.

The nacelle's attempt to deal with troublesome protectors remains a form of classical conflict that is represented and its features are often depicted in books, TV shows, and movies, because many people can be exposed to this type of situation.

The woman's relationship with her husband's family is often tainted. The relationship between them does not improve even after having children and the "protectors" become a grandmother to them. Rather, the relationship gets worse sometimes than before.

In a report published by the Spanish magazine "Bequia Padres", Jose Roldan Prieto said that the nacelle may fall into a complicated situation if her mother-in-law is very rude and inconvenient, so she can follow some tips that enable her to respond politely to her mother-in-law.

First talk to your husband
Talking to a husband is the first step a niece should take if her mother-in-law is annoying and says inappropriate words. It is imperative that the couple stand next to each other in order to be able to solve this problem safely. The wife can tell her husband that she can no longer tolerate his mother's unacceptable behavior against her, and that they must define a strategy on how to speak to her.

Meet the mother-in-law
The priesthood can arrange a meeting with her mother-in-law in which no other party will attend even grandchildren, so she explains to her calmly that her rude behavior affects her husband and children, and even her relationship with her.

For example, the wife explains to her mother-in-law that her comments about the condition of her children and her home are extremely offensive and unacceptable. It is essential that the nacelle be based on examples of disturbing comments that its mother-in-law says.

Give your mother-in-law a chance to answer
Leaving space for the mother-in-law to speak can sometimes make her apologize for her identity, because she was unaware of the harshness of her comments in the past. However, the wife should be prepared to hear some negative answers that are far from apologizing or feeling remorse, and if this happens, she should be calm and not get carried away by nervous responses.

Withdraw if the dialogue turns into a battle
Withdrawing from dialogue when it is overwhelmed by charged environments is one of the successful strategies for not complicating the situation further. On the other hand, the mother-in-law can think of the dialogue that took place between her and her son's wife more calmly and rationally.

After two or three days, the nacelle can talk to her mother-in-law again about the conversation that took place between them last time. She can also explain to her again the negative impact of her comments on her life.

Remind your mother-in-law of her behavior towards you
The mother-in-law sometimes does not take into account the bad behaviors that you intend to do rightly, and therefore it is necessary for the wife to explain to her the actions that disturb her accurately and in detail. The mother-in-law is likely to be able to improve her behavior towards the couple and the family in general.

The nacelle should follow an intelligent and effective method instead of dealing brazenly and nervously with its mother-in-law. It is better to speak with her mother-in-law separately, and to try with it to find a solution to end the tense relationship between them.

She should also try to reduce communication with her mother-in-law as much as possible if she continues to deal with her in a non-later manner. Meanwhile, the estrangement of the relationship between the mother-in-law and the nacelle should not negatively affect the relationship of the grandchildren to their grandmother.